NewThe Confidence Program · Evidence-Based CBT

Fix your chest.
And your head.

Correction takes months, your confidence doesn't have to wait. The CBT-based program for the psychology of a pectus chest.

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Core chapters
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Bonus toolkits
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People helped
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Helping people since
70 seconds · the program walkthrough

Pectus got into your head.
Take it back first.

The mirror problem outlasts the chest problem unless you deal with it directly.

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01 / The half nobody addresses

The mirror got into
your head.

Every device and program targets the chest. Almost none address what the chest did to your mind, the avoidance, the monitoring, the way one body part started running your decisions.

You avoid the beach, the pool, the changing room
Whole categories of life quietly got crossed off, not because of the chest itself, but because of what being seen feels like.
You monitor how you look constantly
Angles, lighting, what shirt, who's looking, a background process that never switches off and exhausts you.
Correction is slow and your mood rides on it
When your sense of self is fused to a chest that changes over months, every plateau feels like a verdict.
Social situations feel like exposure
Dating, the gym, taking your shirt off, even certain conversations, appearance anxiety turns ordinary moments into ordeals you brace for.
You’ve tried to “just be confident” and failed
Willpower doesn't fix body image, structured tools do.
It’s affecting things that have nothing to do with your chest
Opportunities not taken, words not said, a smaller life, the cost of low body-image confidence spreads far past the gym mirror.
The part that matters

Body image isn't fixed.
It doesn't wait.

The same CBT approaches with strong evidence for body-image problems work here too, adapted for pectus. You can rebuild confidence on a parallel track, starting now, not one millimetre at a time.

02 / The evidence

Backed by the research,
not just my opinion.

Gilovich et al. 2000
Spotlight
we vastly overestimate how much others notice our appearance
Beck 1976
Catch→Replace
the 3-step CBT thought tool you can use anywhere
correction studies
Early
body image improves in the first weeks, before the chest changes
JAMA meta-analysis
Meditation
reduces anxiety across multiple randomized trials
the daily practice
<10 min
a day, frequency beats intensity
evidence base
18
references, pectus psychology plus gold-standard tools
03 / Results

Transformations
& Real Stories

Read them by rating, or by what people actually got out of it - the transformations, the honest reviews, and the messages that land in my inbox every week.

500+
Documented Transformations
1,000+
People Helped
11+
Years of Research & Practice
★★★★★

"I came across your blog about a year ago and I just want to say how much you've changed my life for the better. I thought it was going to be another average article, but the tips you gave were things I hadn't heard of before. Now I've improved so much and im more confident then ever."

★★★★★

"read the blog for months before i actually did anything with it. no coach, no brace, just the stuff in the articles done properly. i feel a lot better now and the photos say the rest"

★★★★★

"Two months in and I've put on 3 kg of muscle. My chest doesn't cave the way it used to when I'm standing relaxed, and that alone was worth it."

★★★★★

"Had the flare since i was about 14 and just assumed that was my ribcage, permanently. Brace plus the breathing drills and my mrs asked when i'd lost weight. I hadn't lost anything, it's just the ribs sitting where they should now."

★★★★★

"first call he told me straight up itd take a year and id hate months 2 through 5. he was right about both lol. 12 months on and my PC is flat. took my shirt off at the beach in january without doing the whole towel thing"

★★★★★

"didnt know you could be breathing wrong for 21 years. thats the whole thing right there. flare started going down on its own once i stopped breathing into my shoulders, which is not what i paid for but ill take it"

★★★★★

"the bell leaves a red ring on your chest the second you take it off, and nobody warns you about that. it fades within the hour and the skin has never been an issue since. 100% satisfied - the sternum sits higher than it has my whole life"

★★★★★

"the brace is made really good, i wear it under the t-shirt at school and nobody has noticed in 4 months. my mother was crying when we compare the photos. sorry for my english"

★★★★★

"He knows more about this than the two consultants I paid to see, which says more about them than it does about him. Showed my GP the 9 month photos and he asked me for the website. Half a star off because the time zones make the calls a nightmare from Ireland."

★★★★★

"ive bought like four programs for this over the years and quit every one of them by week two. finished this one. i think its cus you cant move on until you can actually hold the position, so theres never that thing where you're guessing if youre ready or not"

★★★★★

"watched the youtube for six years before i spent a single cent. bought the program, did it properly for 7 months, and the only thing i actually regret is the six years"

★★★★★

"My son is 15 and had started keeping a shirt on in the pool, which is how I worked out something was wrong in the first place, because he certainly wasn't going to tell me. He would never have stuck with the brace on his own. It was the fortnightly check-ins that did it - he didn't want to turn up with nothing to report. Six months now and the bump has visibly come down. He swims without the shirt."

★★★★★

"I went in wanting to debunk it, honestly. Started opening the citations one at a time and they were real papers that said what he said they said. That is a depressingly low bar and nowhere else online clears it."

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Pat · Germany 🇩🇪
Vacuum bell owner
Pectus Excavatum
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Stefan, portrait
Stefan · Macedonia 🇲🇰
Vacuum bell owner
Pectus Excavatum
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Simeon · Slovenia 🇸🇮
Coaching client
Pectus Excavatum

Shared with each client's permission.

Documented Progression

Did I help you with your pectus?

Share your before & after
Andro — pectus excavatum chest before and after the planBefore
After
Andro
Month 0 → Month 3
Pectus ExcavatumWeight gain: +2 kg lean muscle massPectus excavatum workout programItaly 🇮🇹
Liam — pectus excavatum and rib flare chest before and after 9 months on the planBefore
After
Liam, portrait
Liam, 32
Month 0 → Month 9
“I'm 32. Everything I ever read said the window on this shuts at 18 and after that you either get cut open or you live with it. Nine months, 5 kg on, 1 cm off the depth. Nobody is more annoyed about the wasted decade than me.”
Pectus Excavatum + Rib FlareWeight gain: +5 kg lean muscle masspectus depth −1 cmExercise & 1-on-1 coachingSeattle, WA 🇺🇸
Ian — pectus excavatum and rib flare chest before and after the planBefore
After
Ian, portrait
Ian, 22
Month 0 → Month 6
“came in skinny with a deep dip and ribs that stuck out at the bottom. six months, 4kg up. funny thing is nobody says anything about the dip, its the flare going down that people actually noticed”
Pectus Excavatum + Rib FlareWeight gain: +4 kg lean muscle mass1-on-1 coachingCanada 🇨🇦
Greg Henderson — pectus carinatum and excavatum chest before and after 1-on-1 coachingBefore
After
Greg Henderson, portrait
Greg Henderson, 52
Month 0 → Month 5
“I'm 52. I have both a bump and a dip, which I'm told is unusual, and I've had the pair of them since I was a boy. Nine kilos off in five months and for the first time my chest looks like one chest. I did not expect to be sorting this out at my age, but there we are.”
Pectus Carinatum + Pectus ExcavatumWeight loss: −9 kg1-on-1 coachingOhio, USA 🇺🇸

PE pectus excavatum · PC pectus carinatum · RF rib flare

Drag each slider to compare.Tap any case to open and compare. Published only with the client's written consent.

04 / What changes

Confidence that doesn’t
wait for the chest.

From hiding it to fixing it
From hiding it to fixing it
The flinch loses its grip
Changing rooms, the pool, the bedroom, systematic desensitisation drains the charge out of the moments you've been avoiding.
The constant monitoring quiets down
The background scan of how you look starts to switch off, freeing up the mental bandwidth it's been eating.
Your mood stops riding on millimetres
You hold correction as a long-term process instead of a daily verdict on your worth, which, ironically, makes sticking with it easier.
Social situations feel ordinary again
Dating, the gym, conversations, the exposure hierarchy rebuilds confidence in the exact situations that felt like ordeals.
You take chances you were skipping
The opportunities low body-image confidence was quietly costing you start getting taken.
You’re a person who happens to have a chest condition
Not a chest condition with a person attached. The cognitive separation that gives you yourself back.
05 / What’s inside

Everything inside
the program.

Evidence-based, focused, and adapted specifically for the psychology of pectus, four core chapters, plus a daily practice, a 4-week plan and three bonus toolkits.

  1. Body Image SciencePart 01

    Why pectus messes with confidence, and why that reaction is documented and normal, not weak. The spotlight effect, the self-worth pie, and the research showing body image is changeable.

  2. The Thought Tools (CBT)Part 02

    Cognitive restructuring adapted for pectus: the catch → challenge → replace loop, the exact thinking traps a pectus chest produces, and a 60-second worksheet.

  3. Stop HidingPart 03

    A gentle exposure ladder out of avoidance, plus specific game plans for the gym locker room, the pool and beach, and dating and intimacy.

  4. The Progress MindsetPart 04

    How to hold physical correction as a long-term project without it owning your identity, and the self-compassion that makes it sustainable.

  5. The Daily PracticePart 05

    All four tools in one under-10-minute daily routine: a morning reframe, standing tall, one brave action, a self-compassion line and a daily win.

  6. The 4-Week PlanPart 06

    A gentle month that builds it into a habit, Week 1 awareness, Week 2 reframe, Week 3 stop hiding, Week 4 compassion and integrate.

  7. Bonus · Meditation & AnxietyPart 07

    Why 10 minutes a day loosens the grip of anxious thoughts, how to start with guided sessions, and how meditation compounds with the CBT work.

  8. Bonus · In-the-Moment ToolkitPart 08

    Your emergency kit for when panic spikes at the pool or changing room, a 60-second 4-step reset and three lines to keep in your back pocket.

  9. Bonus · Comparison & SetbacksPart 09

    Defuse the comparison machine in your pocket, and learn why a bad day is a Tuesday, not a relapse, with reframes that get you back on track.

06 / What you get

The whole psychological
toolkit.

Understand & the tools
Body-image science explained
CBT cognitive-restructuring tools
The stop-hiding exposure ladder
The progress-mindset framework
Do it
An under-10-minute daily practice
A guided 4-week plan
Meditation & anxiety guidance
In-the-moment + comparison/setback toolkits
Access
Instant download, lifetime access
Works alongside any correction path
Self-paced, private
07 / Everything inside

The full contents,
nothing held back.

  1. Start · 6 parts · 12 chapters
  2. Part 1Start here01
    1. 01How to use this program
  3. Part 2Understand02
    1. 02Body image science
  4. Part 3The tools03–05
    1. 03The thought tools (CBT)
    2. 04Stop hiding
    3. 05The progress mindset
  5. Part 4Do it06–07
    1. 06The daily practice
    2. 07The 4-week plan
  6. Part 5Bonus · go further08–10
    1. 08Meditation & anxiety
    2. 09The in-the-moment toolkit
    3. 10Comparison, social media & setbacks
  7. Part 6Reference11–12
    1. 11FAQ
    2. 12References (18)
  8. Finish · chapter 12 of 12

Four core chapters, an under-10-minutes-a-day practice, a 4-week plan and three bonus toolkits, evidence-based throughout.

Me, 11+ years in pectus
I had it myself
08 / Who built this

I had it. I fixed it.
Now I help you do the same.

I'm not writing this as a doctor looking at a scan. I had the sunken chest, the flared ribs, the shirt that stayed on at the pool, and nobody could tell me what actually works.

Years of consistent, non-surgical training made mine unnoticeable. Everything on this page exists because I needed it to exist ten years ago.

I tested all of it on my own body first, then refined it every time someone hit a wall I had not planned for.

Had it
Not a theory to me
11+
Years in pectus
3
Conditions covered
Cited
Backed by studies

Featured in Healthline · Level 5 DUKE Institute Certified Personal Trainer (ISSA) · Specialised in pectus excavatum, carinatum and rib flare.

Prof. Dr. Mustafa Yüksel, MD

Medical reviewer

Prof. Dr. Mustafa Yüksel, MD is the medical reviewer for the mrpectus correction plans. He checks the clinical claims they make.

Thoracic surgeon, founder of the Chest Wall International Group

See the review
09 / The honest math

What each path
actually costs.

Not in dollars. In time. Side by side, honestly.

Do nothing
Forever
Another year of hiding it
The problem doesn't fix itself
Same mirror next summer
Figure it out alone
Years
Conflicting forum advice
Trial and error on your own body
Most people lose 1–2 years here
This system
Months
You start tonight
A schedule that actually holds
You measure the change instead of guessing
Start the 4-week plan
$47 one-time · instant access · 30-day money-back guarantee
10 / Honest assessment

Who a guide helps, and
who needs more than one.

It's for you if
It reached your head
Pectus has cost you more in confidence than it has in appearance
You avoid and you check
Situations you skip, mirrors you scan, shirts that stay on
Tools, not encouragement
"Just be confident" has never once worked, and you know it
Your mood off the timeline
You want to stop waiting on millimetres to feel alright
You'll do the practice
Reading it changes nothing; the exercises are the whole product
It's not for you if
You want a physical fix
This works on the psychology; your chest stays exactly as it is
You won't do exposure work
The CBT and exposure practice is where the change comes from
You're in crisis
Please reach a mental-health professional, not a self-guided book
You want a therapist
This is a toolkit you work through alone, at your own pace

This is education and self-help, not a substitute for clinical care, if you’re struggling badly, please reach out to a mental-health professional.

What happens when you click buy

No surprises between
you and starting.

01
Checkout
Takes about a minute. Secure payment, nothing to install.
02
A link and a password arrive
Sent the moment your payment clears. Open the link, type the password once, and that page is unlocked on that device from then on.
03
That page stays yours
It lives at a fixed web address, so there is nothing to download and nothing to lose. Read it on your phone at the gym or print the whole thing.
04
Every update lands there too
When I add or revise anything, it appears on the same page and I email you to say so. Free, for as long as the page exists - and you have 30 days to decide it was worth it.

No waiting on a reply, no onboarding call, nothing to install.

11 / Get instant access

Stop letting it
run the show.

The evidence-based confidence program (body-image science, CBT tools, social-confidence drills, a daily practice, a 4-week plan and three bonus toolkits) for a fraction of one therapy session. Instant download, lifetime access.

Try the whole thing for 30 days. Use it, and if it isn't what was described, message me for a full refund, no questions asked. The risk stays with me, not you.

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12 / FAQ

Common questions.

Is this a substitute for therapy?+

No. It’s evidence-based self-help that adapts well-supported CBT approaches (cognitive restructuring, graded exposure, self-compassion) for pectus body image. It’s a powerful toolkit for most people, but if you’re in real distress, please also work with a qualified mental-health professional.

How is the program structured, and how long does it take?+

Four core chapters (body-image science, the CBT thought tools, stop hiding, and the progress mindset), then a daily practice under 10 minutes and a step-by-step 4-week plan, plus three bonus toolkits (meditation, an in-the-moment reset, and comparison/setbacks). You can read it in a sitting, but the value comes from practising it over the following weeks. It’s self-paced and private.

Will this help if my chest isn’t corrected yet?+

That’s exactly who it’s for. Confidence doesn’t have to wait for full physical correction, the whole point is to rebuild it on a parallel track, starting now, so your mood stops riding on slow progress.

Is it specific to pectus or generic confidence advice?+

It’s adapted specifically for pectus conditions, the body-image patterns, the avoidance and the correction-journey mindset that come with a visible chest difference. Not recycled generic confidence content.

Will this actually change how I feel at the pool or beach?+

That situation (shirt off, people around) is one of the core scenarios the exposure work targets. Not with "just be confident" advice, but with a graded ladder you climb at your own pace, plus a 60-second in-the-moment reset for when the panic spikes, so the situation loses its charge step by step.

Does it include meditation?+

Yes, there’s a bonus section on meditation and anxiety. Ten minutes a day loosens the grip of anxious thoughts and compounds with the CBT tools, and it walks you through how to actually start (including a free option). It won’t change your chest; it changes how tightly the thoughts about it hold you.

What happens when I have a bad day or a setback?+

That’s built into the plan. A whole bonus section covers comparison, social media and setbacks, why a bad day is a Tuesday and not a relapse, and gives you the reframes to get back on track without spiralling.

Is this just positive thinking?+

No, positive thinking is exactly the approach that fails with body image. This is structured cognitive work: identifying the specific distorted thoughts pectus produces (mind-reading, spotlight effect, catastrophising), testing them, and retraining the pattern. It’s a method, not a mood.

I avoid mirrors and photos completely, where do I start?+

With the stop-hiding chapter, which starts exactly there. Avoidance shrinks your life a little at a time, mirrors, photos, pools, dating, and the program rebuilds each one gradually. You never jump to the deep end; that’s the point of graded exposure.

Does it cover dating and intimacy anxiety?+

Yes, the fear of the shirt coming off in front of someone is one of the most common pectus anxieties, and the program addresses it directly: the anticipation spiral, the disclosure question, and the exposure steps that dissolve it.

Am I too old for this to work?+

No. The cognitive patterns are the same whether you’ve carried them for five years or twenty-five, and the CBT toolset it adapts is evidence-based across ages. Longer-held habits take more repetitions, not a different method.

How do I get access after checkout?+

Straight away. The moment your payment clears, an email goes out with your link and the password that opens it - usually inside a minute. You type the password once on a device and the page just opens from then on. There is no app, no download and no file to lose: it lives at a fixed web address, so you can bookmark it, read it on your phone between sets, or print the whole thing if you would rather have paper. Anything I add or rewrite later appears on that same page and I email you to say so - free, for as long as the page exists. If nothing has arrived in ten minutes, check spam, then message me and I will send it over myself.

What if it’s not for me?+

Email me inside 30 days and I'll refund you in full. This one deals with how you feel about your chest, and if it lands wrong for you I don't want your money for it.

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back.

The evidence-based program for the psychology of a pectus condition, so your confidence stops waiting on a chest you’re still working on. Body-image science, CBT tools, social-confidence drills, a daily practice and a 4-week plan, ready to use today.

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P.S. If you've read this far, part of you has already decided. The only thing you can lose by trying is the version of next year where nothing changed. - Mihail

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